期望约会应用为我们匹配越来越好的潜在灵魂伴侣具有破坏性
尤瓦尔·赫拉利指出，期待约会应用不断为我们匹配更优质的灵魂伴侣是一种破坏性心态。这种期望鼓励我们因为微小的缺点不断拒绝候选人，同时也阻碍我们改变自身的任何不足。真正的亲密关系需要包容与自我成长，而非无休止的挑剔。
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